Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Aaji's Fridge

We're all a bunch of nomads
We don't have roots, we have a family tree
4 daughters, 8 grand-daughters & assorted family
Who all set out to travel as far as could be
Festivals were different wherever we would be
Even the hours moved very differently
Days passed by at different speeds
Reunions became distant dreams
But there's one place we gathered at
One place that remained
Aunts, cousins, husbands cats
One place to which we came

Open the door and take a look
You'll spot all parts of the globe
Work, travel, business & fun
Snapshots from wherever we'd go
Spices sourced from Italy
Saffron straight from Spain
Chocolates from Duty Free
And achaar always remained
We never met all at once
What with work, life, college, kids...
But we still connected somehow
In the interiors of my Aaji's fridge

No matter who, or where they were
We brought back lovely things to eat
Because we knew, once safely stored
They'd be the way the family meets
That fridge is a symbol of the family
Each taste different, each choice unique
Each ready to partake cheerfully
Of the complete insanity
There was always something for you there 
Whoever you were, there would be
Something special just for you 
Included in the mix carefully 
You knew, whenever you rummaged through
You were where you had a right to be
It wasn't just another fridge
It was a tribute to family

I don't know where that fridge will go now
Nor does the machine matter to me
I only wish, somewhere, somehow
We find another excuse to meet
How else will we share the love
What else could we use to bridge
Time zones, people, countries without
The central point of Aaji's fridge?
Where will home-made bhaaji meet
The sinful chocolate of the Swiss
Where else will the fancy Cheese
Meet gharcha loncha in total peace?
Our melting pot is unhooked now
The shelves morose & empty
We'll find another, there's no doubt
And on those shelves, again we'll meet
But the central point will always be
The shelves of my Aaji's fridge
Where we returned religiously
Despite work, life, college or kids.

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Cat Addict - Poetry Slam, Mumbai

Because they're felines and you have no choice. They took over the internet, and will slowly take over the world!

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Kahaani Kuch Jyaada Hi TV Ki

The midget is your usual TV-enthusiast child-of-the-90s.
I love my cartoons, and my RomComs and SitComs and have a particular soft corner good-looking men with sexy accents.
I don't usually rant about the media, because, let's face it, my bread-sans-butter comes from all kinds of media thingamies. But there's one thing I cannot suffer silently, and that's the soap-opera. More specifically, the Indian TVC's contribution to soap-operas has me fuming.
Because in a country where they only need the dream of the hint of smoke before they call the fire-brigade, the blatant kitchen-sink politics they showcase, even glorify can contribute to some unpleasant domestic situations. Our TVCs show violence, greed, crime, adultery, emotional abuse all in the guise of 'entertainment'.

It frustrates me. So I did what I always do when frustrated. I wrote. And then performed it. Here it is... Kahaani Kuch Zyaada Hi TV Ki

Responses welcome.

Critique encouraged.

Please do fight with me on this one. I'd love to have a chance to rant impromptu!

Monday, September 15, 2014

My Life is a Box

My life is a life in a box
Everything I own fits in a box
Every family member has a box.
I live in a box, sometimes out of a box.

Everything can be folded, just so
So everything has a proper place to go
All my things fit neatly one by one
New things replace the old stuff with which you’re done

There’s a master-box called ‘Life’ with a shiny red button
It’s the trigger that’s activated all of a sudden
And wham! The world springs into motion
Moving from hill to plain or ocean to ocean
Everything wrapped up in paper or plastic
Fit in its box, defying all logic
Nothing of life as we knew it remains
The four walls, once a house, now nothing’s the same
My room, the bookcase, bar, cupboards along
We move on and on and on and on

When I was young, I thought this was it
This was what every family did
Come home one day, the boxes are out
It never ends, all the moving about.

Eventually I guessed that it’s not a norm
Not too many others move on and on
So many times from one place to the next
That houses are static, I’d never have guessed.

I’d taken a flight before my peers did
I’d seen more new schools than any other kid
Somewhere in each new school I found
A familiar face from my past around
Every old friend was still different to me
We all changed, place to place, do you see?
Every new school was a chance to start fresh
Who you were from class to class was anyone’s guess

The nerd from 4D was the jock of the year
In 7A that shy chick from 3C appeared
But holy crap, she’s popular now
And how can you like THAT 10B cow?
Oh everyone changes from class to class
Like scenes from a movie, nothing much lasts
Your best friend with whom you played in the dirt
Now is the player with the mini-skirt.
That guy you always thought was a geek
Is now the one all hot girls seek
And you, the observer, from next to the wall
Don’t assume you haven’t changed at all

You’ll eventually all meet up once more
In a world where Facebook can even the score
And “Oh my God, you’re so different!” is the standard hello
From people who once you claimed to know

The Pandora’s box of your life the opens up
And reminds you that you’re still stuck
Amidst boxes.

Boxes with neat school-based labels on
Boxes with multiple names scribbled on
And some with no name that you’re scared to touch
For fear they might reminds you of too much
Every box opens into a wonderful world
In the past when you were a littler girl

And the boxes weren’t quite so very many
Neither were they ever quite so heavy
As life begins to become more multi-hued
Your boxes increase in number too

And when people talk of some vague ‘baggage’
You actually have it, in physical luggage!
You’re capable of lording it over
Any rummaging, kleptomaniac hoarder
And eventually, in the chapter for the life you led
There’ll be a list of box-contents instead



The Bed Next Door

The bed next door to me used to be
A comfy place to sleep in
Now it’s just a space
To store blankets and books and cats
Even the cats don’t go there any more, in fact

The bed next door to me is waiting
Waiting like a dog for the man of the house
Like a little child for its mother to awake so it can play
Like the breathless waiting for the final ball of the match
Waiting like a bed for the butt that’s supposed to lazily lie
And the slob that’s supposed to spend the mornings in it
Waiting for the mass of uncompromising lazy
And the comforting certainty of being worth something

The bed next door to me used to be a comfy place to sleep in
But now it’s a vacant waiting room
With vacant chairs
Occupied by vacant stares
Looking into vagueness for something that isn’t there
Waiting for the train to roll in
For the doctor to see you now
For the results of the entrance test that decides your future

The bed next door to me is a petulant little child
It refuses to wait
It throws off patience
It throws tantrums
It wails and stomps and screams
It demands
That you with the lazy butt
Come and calm the storm and sleep all day
And make it all better

Because the bed next door to me?
It’s annoying with its emptiness
And its unending waiting
Because it’s a bed, not a storage space
It deserves to be treated better than to be used
To store blankets and books and cats

Even the cats don’t go there any more, in fact.